A thought after reading my friend's blog....
After reading 1 of my friend's blog, I just had a though about relationship. I cannot say that I disagree with her perspective about love, but I will have a different thought about "being scared to fall in love".
I think everyone will have fear when they had previous bad experiences about everything, especially love. I think you ain't the first one or the last one who are scared to fall in love again, there are a lot of people who are just like you. I was one of them before, really scared of being in a relationship, I just think why would I fall into this "relationship trap" when I know I will get hurt, ain't going to be stupid enough to do that. But when I think back now, I just find its quite interesting, you won't fear about it but when the right moment and the right one comes, you will actually forget that you are scared to be in love, to be in a relationship, and just walked into this "trap". I think sometimes human is stupid, knowing its a trap but will still walk into it because of curiosity and others.
I think what I've learn about relationship is that I might fear about it when I was heart broken, but just remember that there are times you are enjoying someone being, love you. All those happy moments that you might have with him/her, going into this "trap" might be worthwhile. As you never know if he/she is the right one for you until you have been with him, otherwise you will still dream and imagine what it will be like to be in love with him/her. I would think it is more an experience when it comes to a relationship, and hopefully this experience might turn into a habit (marriage) one day.
Firepapillion: It is alright to be realistic and pessimistic about relationship, at least it just mean you are being sensible about it. However, I hope you won't give up about getting in love and a relationship because you never know what is coming up next. All of us do long for a passionate but light hearted relationship and hope this dream relationship might come true one day, but without trying you will never know. So please don't give up and don't be too pessimistic about it.
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